When it’s time to make the move and bring things to the physical level, attention is your greatest friend and enemy at the same time.
Learn in this article how to seduce a woman and a simple way that makes her feel it, too.
Should I or shouldn’t I?
When you are into a women, you most likely know the feeling that appears more and more along your getting to know each other and pushes you to bring things to the physical level.
„Should I touch her gently?“
„Should I invite her over to my place and cover my interest?“
„Should I just grab her and kiss her and see how she reacts?“
When it’s time to bring things to the physical stage with a women, most men are tempted, but hesitate. No matter if it’s about the first kiss or first sex.
That intuition is not useless.
If you overwhelm a women by being too forward, she will draw back.
Most men have experienced that already and learned from it. Now they look for signs, which help them to identify if a woman is ready to be seduced, and rather proceed slowly than quickly. But unfortunately the slow move is just as bad as the fast one.
I would like to give you a different kind of insight now, which you might want to keep in mind for the next time…
The „Drug“ For Women
Attention is a drug to most women.
They love to get attention as it gives them approval. The same way you probably like to give attention to a woman as it gives you approval when she talks to you.
Approval feels good. It shows us that we are wanted.
As a result many men live the attitude of „it works well and she seems to enjoy the attention, so I give her more of it.“
In most cases it continues in a way that men either confess their feelings to women or get to keen on physical contact, with the result of the woman drawing back.
We’ve all done it…
But why does it happen if women actually love to get attention?
Attention is no attraction.
Attraction is an intense feeling which drives us to want something….at all cost.
I like to refer to attraction as a candle and attention to a breeze. If you gently add a slight breeze to the fire of a candle, it will blaze. But too much or too little of it and the candle will be blown out or never inflame.
If you want to seduce a woman you always need to keep in mind that eventually it is her DECISION. She must form a thought that tells her „I want! I will let it happen.“
If you give too much by telling her how you feel about her or giving too much attention, you kill the fire and she will feel no attraction to you. She will decide against you.
If you give too little of it on the other hand, she won’t picture you and her, in her mind, and she will feel no desire to go for it.
Here’s something you should never forget…
Getting something kills wanting it.
It’s human nature to want the things we can’t have. It triggers a desire in us and turns it into something special. As long as we can’t get it, but have it in sight, we want it.
Imagine an attractive woman gives you attention, but every time when it’s about to take the situation to the next level, she draws back.
However, she comes back to you over and over again, so your mind always sends you the picture of you and her. You think about it and create scenarios in your mind which feel so real, and which are even increased by her challenging you.
You want her even more.
If you wonder how to seduce women you will want to keep that psychology in mind as it’s hardwired in both men and women. The things we don’t have or can’t have, we want. We want them even more if we can picture them and literally feel what it would be like.
What does this all mean to you?
If you wonder how to seduce a woman, always keep the following in mind:
Give a woman attention, so that her mind drafts a picture of you and her which is so real that she can almost feel what it would be like. Then draw back and take away the attention you gave her in the first place. Let her miss it, because as you know „getting something kills wanting it“.
She must want it and if she does, she will decide for you.
How you proceed step by step at this stage and bring things to the physical level is something you can develop with the right Mindset.